I absolutely love Meghan Sussex’s (formerly known as Meghan Markle) new Netflix show. It offers a fresh, inspiring perspective on a lifestyle that many m
illennials never had the opportunity to experience. Unlike previous generations who grew up with Martha Stewart or learned domestic skills by watching their mothers in the kitchen, many of us were raised by hardworking women who were out in the workforce, striving to break barriers and provide for their families. Now, as many women in their 30s and beyond seek a reprieve from the relentless demands of corporate life, this show is a breath of fresh air.
For decades, we have fought to establish ourselves in a world that wasn’t built for us—navigating the ‘good ol’ boys’ club, proving our worth, and sacrificing our well-being for careers that often left us stressed and depleted. Now, many of us are embracing a different path—one that prioritizes beauty, serenity, and the joy of creating a meaningful home life. From discovering new recipes to floral design, candle-making, and planning luxurious travel experiences, we are reclaiming the essence of a ‘soft life.’ And Meghan’s show beautifully encapsulates this vision.
Yet, despite the elegance and empowerment it represents, the show has faced unwarranted criticism. The media’s attempt to discredit it raises an important question: Is there a deliberate effort to keep women trapped in stress, work-related health issues, and undervalued domestic roles? Why is there so much resistance to women choosing to focus on home, food, and lifestyle as valid and fulfilling priorities? After all, home is where everything begins—it is the foundation of our well-being, creativity, and even our legacy.
Let’s be honest: home decor and cooking shows have always been popular. So why is Meghan’s show being labeled as ‘out of touch’? The backlash seems less about the content and more about who is presenting it. The vitriol directed at the show feels steeped in anti-Blackness rather than genuine critique. If the recipes were bad or the designs were flawed, we’d be hearing constructive criticism. Instead, we see dismissive and hostile comments that reveal deeper biases rather than legitimate reviews.
Perhaps the show’s message is about getting in touch—with the power and beauty of cultivating a life that feels luxurious, nourishing, and centered around joy. Women of all backgrounds, especially Black women, deserve the right to embrace an elevated lifestyle without being shamed or ridiculed. Meghan Sussex’s presence in this space challenges outdated perceptions and asserts that Black women, too, have every right to softness, refinement, and indulgence.
So I encourage you to watch and support this show. Let’s celebrate the right to curate a soft life, regardless of race, and affirm that it is okay to step away from stress, exhaustion, and struggle. We are, and have always been, royal.
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